The wonderful Peter Yang
Would you date a girl who is already a Mum?
October 15th 2009 05:49
Ok, here is the catch, there is this girl I originally like, but she is already a Mum and that is probably a bit too much for me to handle, so I am not able to like her in that way anymore, so now I just like her as a person, nothing more and I never asked her out.
Some people seem to have no problem been together with a girl that already has a child, even if they have never been married and never have kids, for some other people it tend to bother then a lot more, of course it might vary with the girl, also.
I probably won't have problem dating a girl who already have kids, if I am divorce and already have kids, but consider I am single, never married and never have kids, the idea of dating a girl that have already a kid, is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy toooooooooo much for me.
Actor Pierce Brockman (Who use to play 007), is known to be a father who married a women who has two kids and is now a single father raising three children, after his wife die. (Very different from the player 007 is, right?)
So here is my question to you.
Would you feel comfortable dating a girl who already have a kid?
Some people seem to have no problem been together with a girl that already has a child, even if they have never been married and never have kids, for some other people it tend to bother then a lot more, of course it might vary with the girl, also.
I probably won't have problem dating a girl who already have kids, if I am divorce and already have kids, but consider I am single, never married and never have kids, the idea of dating a girl that have already a kid, is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy toooooooooo much for me.
Actor Pierce Brockman (Who use to play 007), is known to be a father who married a women who has two kids and is now a single father raising three children, after his wife die. (Very different from the player 007 is, right?)
So here is my question to you.
Would you feel comfortable dating a girl who already have a kid?
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I am just asking whether you might feel comfortable dating a girl knowing she already have a kid that is all. I won't necessary say it is screw up their life, although some might qualify.
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Do look after your own life in the way you want to, not having the problems of others foist on you, you'll have enough yourself.
If I were in those circumstances I would not want to create problems for someone else.
It's tough on the girls though and most (not all) just would not be told.
Young men ought to learn to be more responsible and then these things would not happen to the extent they are happening now.
Girls would be wise to learn, it is they who will do the suffering, not the guys.
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Generally, a woman who has a child will be wanting a stable and reliable male in her life. Others (like my friend whose husband died tragically when her daughter was only 6 months old) will not be wanting a new man in their life at all, as their entire existence now revolves around raising their child, and nothing more.
These are not "ruined" women. They should not be looked down upon. They simply have more responsibilites, and different priorities to the majority of carefree, childless women, and as such you're right to think carefully about whether you'd be the kind of man they would want in their lives - and whether you could handle that sort of a commitment.
Anyway check out those forums Peter, and best of luck to you!
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I just thought this is an interesting topic. So I want thought it be interesting to see how different people see it.
Personally I don't date girls that have kids, having children or been married is a deal breaker for me.
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Every continent need not be undiscovered though - just be wary of how strict the immigration laws are . . . if you know what I mean.
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i am close with two different women who have "blended families" and they work better than the original couples ever did
it is naive to think the parents of children will stay together for their entire lives, you dont stop being a human being after you have children, people grow and change and the person that suited them when they were 18 is probably going to be different to the person who suits them at 28
maybe you should try getting to know the girl and learn more about her life before you completely dismiss her
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