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What would you do if u think ur girl friend is still in love with her ex
December 30th 2009 01:54
Ok, here is the catch. I was watching "How I met your mother" the other day and there was this scene where Ted's fiance ran off with her ex boy friend, who she had a kid with, apparently because Ted's fiance is really still in love with her ex, but she only wanted to married Ted because her ex won't settle down, so when Ted's finace ex agree to setteling down, TEd's fiance ran off with her ex on the wedding day.
This reminded me of this ckeek I once know. I originally thought she like me (name E), because E can't stop giggling when ever she see me. However, then I found out E got a boy friend, so I figure I was wrong and then when it become obvious E couldn't leave her boy friend who treated her like crap, for three years, I was more certain I was wrong about she liking me. (They just started dating when we first met.)
So, after E finally dumped the looser and all her friends (Who probably watch toooooooo much romantic movies) was hoping to see me and her ended up together (consider I just recently dump my girl friend, because she dones't get along with my mum, my mum is the one with the problem actually, but,,,she is still my mum, so I can't pick a girl over mum, even if mum is the one been unreasonable.) my answer is No.
The reason is simply because, my theory is that E might probably still be in love with the looser and only dumped him because he is a looser, but if one day he changed and become a great guy...then...I sure don't want a finace that ran off with her ex on wedding day.
Anyway, here is my question to you. What would you do if you think your girl friend might still be in love with her ex.
This reminded me of this ckeek I once know. I originally thought she like me (name E), because E can't stop giggling when ever she see me. However, then I found out E got a boy friend, so I figure I was wrong and then when it become obvious E couldn't leave her boy friend who treated her like crap, for three years, I was more certain I was wrong about she liking me. (They just started dating when we first met.)
So, after E finally dumped the looser and all her friends (Who probably watch toooooooo much romantic movies) was hoping to see me and her ended up together (consider I just recently dump my girl friend, because she dones't get along with my mum, my mum is the one with the problem actually, but,,,she is still my mum, so I can't pick a girl over mum, even if mum is the one been unreasonable.) my answer is No.
The reason is simply because, my theory is that E might probably still be in love with the looser and only dumped him because he is a looser, but if one day he changed and become a great guy...then...I sure don't want a finace that ran off with her ex on wedding day.
Anyway, here is my question to you. What would you do if you think your girl friend might still be in love with her ex.
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No offense but I think that is kind of sad...why would girls do that?
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Which part of she had a boyfriend are you having trouble with?
Obviously you've never read Sophocles?
I'm sorry, but no. Peter's 100% right on this one: women come and go, but family is for life. True love is all well and good, but to turn your back on the woman that gave birth to you and raised you? That screams selfish and ungrateful.
Peter: I also watched that episode of HIMYM, and I think this situation is a little different. In the episode, the girl wasn't dating a loser: He was a good guy, who just wasn't ready to commit. In your situation, the guy treated the girl like crap: from my experience, if a girl leaves an abusive relationship, it's generally over (unless it's one of those on-again/off-again things, that's a whole different story).
I would say... losers tend to stay losers, and the odds of him coming back as a good guy are pretty slim indeed. Go with the flow, but if she's obviously still got a hard-on (so to speak) for he ex, then cut her off.
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You both have valid points.
the difference between guys and girls (and I am just generalizing here) is that guys don't really care about relationship, we can live with or witout it our priority is our careers and our mates.
For girls on the other hand, the idea of finding the right guy, settling down is very important to them, their career come second to it.
So, you are both right from your own point of view.